How do you feel when you lose your virginity to that guy or babe? Just days ago, my childhood bae called me on phone after so many months.
Although the call was meant to be about my welfare but it later turned out to be something else. She asked; “how about your first time experience. How does it happened?” Was it a molestation?”
In life however, I believe there must be a first time to some certain things especially when it comes to losing your virginity to someone, and the experience MUST always be there despite your age.
Some may experience it at the age of 13, for some 16, 18, 20, 22, 25, 28, 30 and some above 30 years of age. It all depends on how, where and when the circumstances came to you.
Meanwhile, trying to respond to her sensitive question, it dawned on me that what I’m about telling her was what actually happened to me about 10 years ago with ease.
As for me then, it was pain all over. I found it difficult to walk for some days but it wasn’t a rape actually. In fact the story was a bit “for gods” but wasn’t happy with the young lady until my body was normalised.
Although, it was not an ugly incident such as rape but to some people, losing virginity is always a strange story.
Some are being raped, molested by neighbours, family friend, relative, somebody you want to help, security man, tricked, drugged, charmed, beaten-up or forced which makes the experience unforgettable in life.
However, I summoned courage to explain it to her, how the unforgettable incident happened as if it was just NOTHING.
But If I may ask; how do you feel after losing your virginity to that GUY or BABE? Remember, there must always be a first time.
Share your first time experience…….
I’m Oduigwe Chidera Dok